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At Lutherans Online Singles Seeking, we love to share your success stories. Here are a few of our favorites!

 
New!I met my fiance in July of 2007 through Singles Seeking. We exchanged emails for a few months, then decided to meet in person. Our next, and official first date, turned out to be a train wreck.... literally. I was on a train going to meet him and the train derailed. After a few week delay for me to recover, we did meet (this time I drove) and have been together ever since. We have now decided to marry in 2009.

Debra
October, 2008.

 
 
New!I am having you delete my profile as through your message board and then the Thrivent singles seeking site I have met John and we will be married on Dec 27th. I had given up on online dating sites but after you email and then emailing each other that led to phone calls and meeting each other we have found that we have much in common and have truly fallen in love. Thank you so much for the oppertunity to meet someone to go to church with and take communion with.

Betty
October, 2008

 
 
New!Patricia told you her side of the story; here is my side. I, too, can have my name removed from the database, as she and I married 3 weeks ago. I couldn't have been more pleased with the questions used to prepare the profile, and the way Lutherans Online handled the initial communications. We just celebrated the 10-month anniversary of my posting a profile and her response two hours later, one of 6 that afternoon. I feel we were brought together in a very nice way. Our immediate families--siblings, children, grandchildren, nieces, and nephews were at the wedding, and everything went as planned. We are very happy together, and looking forward to some years of being together. As an older man, I didn't see much point in delaying things, and she agreed. Having an online service that narrows the people included to those who share some important things in common really helps. Thanks, Thrivent. And thanks, Patricia. To all those who are amazed this has happened to us, I can only say: we are amazed also, and delighted to be amazed.

Gene
October, 2008

 
 
Please remove me from singles seeking singles. I found my match. We met via this website in January and are getting married next month. THANK YOU for blessing my life with this very special mate. I started interacting with Gene the first day he posted his profile. I appreciated the profile questions. It helped me decide if we might be compatible.

Patricia
August, 2008

 
 
My roommate first met my fiance on the message board from Single Seeking around October of 2006. Around February of 2007 I began emailing him. In April of 2007 we met in person. When talking to each other we found out we lived in the same apartment complex in St. Louis! What a coincidence!!! We saw each other off and on over the next several months and decided we really liked where things were headed. In September of 2007 I invited him and his brother to a Cardinals game with my roommate and I. That became the start of two really special romances between 4 people! In April of 2008 both guys asked us ladies to marry them!! Well, the conclusion of the story will take place in June of 2009 when we get married 13 days apart!!!

Donna
August, 2008

 
 
In August of 2005, I answered an email that changed my life and it all began because I was bored one day and started a profile on Singles Seeking. JJ emailed and we began to chat online and then by phone at least 2-3 times a day. Finally on Oct. 30, 2005 we met face to face and I knew that I had met the man I would some day marry. I fought the feelings for several months and then JJ did, but eventually, we got our act together and are getting married in June of this year. I would like to thank you for having a free way for singles to meet. And to think it was all because I was bored. I love sharing the story with others and letting them know the impact that Thrivent has had on my life. Especially since I have found myself a part of this wonderful company, now.

Chris
March, 2008

 
 
On September 27, 2006, I got an email that I nearly deleted, thinking it was spam, then realized it was from Thrivent. I had no idea at the time that I had just received an email from the true love of my life! Within days of his emailing me, he deployed to Iraq, and we continued to write each other daily, and talk weekly when he was able to call. We finally met in person when he flew home nearly 10 months later for a 2-week break. By then we knew we were made for each other. He returned to Iraq for the remainder of his deployment; in December he came home to Kansas, and I flew out from New Hampshire. He proposed on January 1st, 2008! We will be getting married April 25, and are both so grateful to God and to Lutherans Online (and of course to his mom, who nagged him into joining, to hear him tell it!) for bringing us to each other from half a world apart.

Jennifer and Gustav
March, 2008

 
 
Stephanie and i met on LOL singles in June of 03... 3,000 miles apart we e-mailed and talked by phone for 6 months... made the same dinners on Fridays and got the same movie from the rental place and had a 3000 mile "date" having dinner and a movie "together". She visited NJ- September 11, 2003 she asked me to meet her folks in Calif for Christmas 03... she proposed to me in baggage claim at SFO international... We got married twice, once at the Courthouse in Red Bluff CA in May 04... and at my church (re-affirming our vows) in NJ in August '04. then we moved to Oregon in July 05.. God is sooooo good! We're coming up on 5 years together; Thanks be to God and LOL.

Don
March, 2008

 
 
I had given up on Lutherans Online and hadn't looked at it for almost a year when I received an email from David. Even though he was in Iowa and I was in Indiana--and he's originally from Papua New Guinea--we seemed to connect within a few messages. A couple of months later found me driving 8 hours through the snow to meet face to face, and within another 6 months we were engaged. We were married on February 4, 2006. It still amazes me how God brought us together from completely opposite sides of the planet.

Michelle
March, 2008

 
 
Elizabeth and I had independently moved to the Twin Cities from Wisconsin within one month of each other, but did not meet until the Lord brought us together on Lutherans Online. Thanks to the website, we have dated for a year and are engaged to be married this May in Madison, WI. If you persevere the Lord will bless, and may the Lord bless you Thrivent. Many thanks.

Vince and Betsy
December, 2007

 
 
Liz and I started emailing each other back in June of 2006. Over the course of more than a year, we became good friends, sharing our deepest thoughts, hopes, wishes and dreams. I found I had a love for her that grew into a curiosity about what might happen were we ever to meet. Back at the end of September we finally met and discovered that our friendship easily blossomed into a rich affection. We are currently engaged to be married on December 9th, 2007. Thank you Jesus! And thank you, Thrivent!

Steve and I started writing to each other in June, 2006. Fifteen months later, having built a solid friendship, we agreed to meet. We're engaged to be married in December, 2007. We're delighted with your site and God's use of it to bring us together. Thank you so much!

Steve and Liz
November, 2007

 
 
The Lord has blessed me with a truly wonderful wife! I met my wife, Lori, on Lutherans Online last June (2006). We talked online and via phone throughout the summer and met for the first time in October. I asked her to marry me on New Years Eve and we were married on June 23rd. I am blessed to be able to walk together with her for the rest of our life.

Steve
July, 2007

 
 
I have to send a huge thank you to God and the work he has done through the Singles Seeking Service. My now husband found my profile on here in June 2006 and we met in person 1 week later, were engaged, 6 months later, and married 5 months after that. I am happier than I could ever believe. Thank you for creating this website to help all of the single Lutherans out there find the person God intended for them to share life with.

Sarah
May, 2007

 
 
I wasn't looking for a long-distance relationship (but Waukesha WI is only 650 miles from Knoxville TN) but a few weeks after I got into this site I received a message from a sassy lady who said, "Write back, if you want to." We wrote back and forth and met at her church in Knoxville several weeks later. About ten months later we were engaged and we just celebrated our third wedding anniversary. The Lord has given me a good Christian woman this time and I love her dearly. Frances is indeed a blessing to me. Best wishes to Christine and Weldon as they approach their fourth anniversay as well.

Bruce
May, 2007

 
 
After watching 2 good friends marry their wonderful men - I had to ask "How did you meet?" They both said Lutherans Online. I, somewhat reluctantly, decided to try it. So glad I did! My prince came into my life last May and now we are planning our wedding for this June. God certainly works in mysterious ways!!

Jennifer
February, 2007

 
 
I met my wife, Joy, through Singles Seeking in 2001. I posted an ad and she answered and although she was 450 miles away, we began email and telephone "dating." This started Labor Day and by Thanksgiving we were married. The five years that we have spent together have been great and with the Lord's blessing we will have many more years together. Thank you Lutherans Online!

Dale
January, 2007

 
 
My husband and I met two years ago through Singles Seeking. We celebrated our first anniversary on November 12, and are now expecting our first child in June. Thank you, Singles Seeking!

Lisa
November, 2006

 
 
I had my profile posted on Single Seeking. My husband noticed it two years ago. Since then we have dated and just recently got married. I want to thank you for bring us together.

Amanda
November, 2006

 
 
Marty and I each submitted a profile on Lutherans Online in June. He has been divorced 20 years, I for 17 years. We both were looking for companionship and possible relationship. Your profile so perfectly matched us that I knew after the first of several conversations that this man was something I didn't think existed anymore. We were both from Pennsylvania, but were about 300 miles apart. We met the first time in Scranton for a ballgame. Marty was running for a Sunday School group-a safe first date. Wow! After that things just took off. The good Lord was most certainly with us. The similarities in our lives just kept appearing. The Lord most certainly led us together-there is no doubt in our minds. We will be getting married in February 2007-and are most grateful for Lutherans Online. Otherwise we would never have met-and missed the opportunity to live as a couple until death do us part. Since he is 64 and I am 59, we are indeed happy for this second chance.

Lois
November, 2006

 
 
Singles Seeking worked! I am now blissfully engaged to the love of my life, a beautiful Lutheran girl from across the country -- someone I never would have met if not for Lutherans Online. I saw her profile, she answered my e-mail; within two weeks we'd made plans for seeing each other. Six months later, she said "yes" and now we're planning our wedding and looking forward to the wonderful life God has in store for us.

Jesse
September, 2006

 
 
Mostly on a whim, but with a little encouragement from others, we both posted our profiles back in May 2005. Karen's was posted less than 24 hours when Kevin sent a message, which was definitely the start of something very special. We quickly started e-mailing and haven't stopped yet. After a month we met and have been together ever since. We were engaged at the beginning of Feburary 2006 and married in July 2006. We are so happy together and feel very blessed to have been brought together. It's been a great 21st century romance!

Kevin and Karen
August, 2006

 
 
I've been using Lutherans Online since 2002 and have dated a few guys from the site. It took several years but in February 2005 I emailed one guy on a whim because he lived in Maryland like me, and now we're engaged! My sister and my former college roommate have also found lasting love on this site. It's not an insta-mate service, but for those still seeking, don't give up! Wonderful people are out there waiting to be found!

Ruth
August, 2006

 
 
A little over four years ago, three years after a painful divorce, I saw a post from a man who lived in neighboring Missouri. We corresponded and met several months later. It was a perfect match, but locations made ours an internet and once a month weekend romance. Through God's marvelous plan, a job lay off and a new job here in Oklahoma, we had a year to test our feelings surviving a heart attack, broken ribs and another job lay off. In December 2003, we made it official and became engaged with me as the only one employed ; less than a month later he got a great job with the state government. We were married last April at Our Saviour in Kansas City. Life has never been so wonderful with His presence in our lives every day.

Karen
February, 2006

 
 
I am 47 years old and have never married. I am a Seminarian at Concordia Sem, St. Louis. Last year I met Sally through Singles Seeking, and we will be getting married this April. Thanks to God, I have met the woman of my dreams through Singles Seeking.

Robert
January, 2006

 
 
Dave and I met in the Lutherans Online chat room in March 2004. Our wedding date is November 26, 2005. I'm moving from Illinois to Michigan, so our long distance relationship lead to marriage. We are blessed to have met here online.

Tina
October, 2005

 
 
Hi, I met my husband on Lutherans Online, I had just came out of a bad relationship a year before I signed up on Lutherans Online. I had been just surfing the web when I found your ad. I figured why not it can't hurt if anything maybe I'll find a friend. I signed on August 23rd. And on August 28th my husband emailed me back, we talked alot over the next few days. We were about 200 miles apart from each other, I would walk to the library every day after work to write to him and he would write to me from work. It went on like this for about a week or so when he drove down to my house to see me. He came down every weekend from then on. Then in dec. he asked me to marry him, in front of the christmas tree after a candlelit dinner he had prepared. That was two years ago, we were just married on April 9th 2005. And I couldn't be happier I thank God everyday for my husband he is everything I prayed for and so much more. He is the most loving, caring and gentlest person I've ever know. He still brings me flowers and gives me butterflies every time I see him. I'm so proud to be his wife. I would like to say thanks for your website and thanks to God for bringing us together. I wanted to find a friend on the website, I found that and so much more, my husband is my best friend, and my soul mate. thanks, again.

Bonnie
September, 2005

 
 
A year ago at the National Youth Gathering I ran into an old girlfriend who had just returned from her honeymoon after meeting her husband on lutheransonline. Well since I had spent soo much money before and some men have been intimidated by my DCE degree, especially in the south, i thought why not try a free service. Well the day I returned from the national youth gathering I signed up July 30, 2004.. got lot of hits.. and Brad was one of them. We would e-mail each other alot and then he came to Georgia for the first time in October in 2004, then again in November. I met his mom New Year's Eve and he met my parents after I had nasal passage surgery. On Ash Wednesday 2005 we talked about getting married and now August 2005 we set our date as April 22, 2006. God is so good in his faithfulness and I thank God for Brad and I can't wait to be his wife. Thank you for providing a service. Blessings to all!!!

Lori
August, 2005

 
 
God works in marvelous ways! We met on your website this past spring, and are now engaged to be married. What seems impossible with man has been made possible by the blessing of God. Who would have thought that 2 people would be engaged to be married with a distance of 2000 miles between them? Your website made this possible after viewing each other's personal profiles at Singles Seeking. We fell in love before we even met! This is our testimony to our gracious Lord. He has definitely put us together. Thank you for the free use of this website. It is a valuable tool for people seeking a Christian partner.

Mike and Sandy
August, 2005

 
 
Both of us were a little hesistant when we began to use the Singles Seeking service. We didn't know if we would meet anyone at all, but we both gave it a try. We began to email each other at the end of October, and were surprised to find out that we were just an hour away from each other! We both wanted to find strong Lutheran Christians to date and eventually marry. We are now engaged and are looking forward to our wedding next summer. Thank you so much for creating a safe place for Lutherans to meet!

David
April, 2005

 
 
My husband and I met on "Singles Seeking" in Jan 2004. He drove 800 miles to see me in April. We became engaged in August 2004. Then we were married on November 27, 2004 at my church. What a tremendous way to meet someone who shares your values.

Barbara
March, 2005

 
 
I placed a posting on Lutherans Online when my daughter left for colege in the fall of 2000. I never had a response until March of 2003. Bill and I exchanged emails for about 5 months before we met in person. We live on opposite sides of our state-about 165 miles apart. I had to go to his area for a family committment. We met for coffee and really liked each other. We called emailed and arranged to meet about half way from our homes. Finally last spring I invited him to visit me at my home area. We found many things in common-I had grown up on his side of the state. WE went to church together, and one of our most fun dates was in Frankenmuth Mich. He proposed in late October, and we were engaged on New Year's Eve. We plan an August 2005 wedding-have set the date with my Pastor. Bill will move here since he took early retirement, and i plan to work a few more years. Lutherans Online has been a true blessing for us. It does work.

Carol
January, 2005

 
 
I am very happy, God answered my prayer and led a Christian widower to me.

Jean
October, 2004

 
 
Over a year ago, I decided to post my profile on Lutherans Online after prayerfully considering the ramifications of online matchmaking. I didn't like the idea of public matchmaking sites as there seemed to be a greater chance of meeting individuals who don’t have the same values or morals as Lutherans did. I was delighted to discover that Thrivent offered a Singles Service and decided to give their online matchmaking service a try. After several months, I started a correspondence with Gretchen who lived 240 miles away. After writing to each other for several months, I offered to help her move (she was changing apartments in the city she lived in) as that seemed like a casual enough excuse to meet her. We hit it off fabulously, and started a long-distance relationship. I can say that even then we both knew we had found something in each other. She has since moved to my town, and in fact lives 2 lots away from my house. This has allowed us to be more involved with each other on a day-to-day basis. After a few months of having a “normal” relationship and meeting each other’s families, I proposed to her. We just officially confirmed our wedding date last evening with our Pastor; we are to be wed on November 27th, 2004! I am so thankful for Lutherans Online for offering these services which helped bring Gretchen and me together! Circumstantially, Gretchen attended the same college as my brother. Our last names are so close together that they are pictured next to each other in their yearbooks – and yet they didn’t know each other. I even saw her at a Christmas concert where she performed on campus back in 96 while I was visiting my brother. God works in such wonderful and mysterious ways!

Arik
June, 2004

 
 
I had been searching for someone to complete my life through other online dating services without success. Then I found out about Singles Seeking and posted my profile, with hope of meeting someone with the same faith. Within a month, Christy responded. We met in person for the first time in October of 2003 and haven’t spent a weekend apart since. We enjoy attending church together at either her church or mine every Sunday. Almost immediately, we seemed made for each other, with many of the same or complimentary interests besides our faith. I’ll be moving to her hometown in June. We’ll be getting married on July 24, 2004, and I’ll become an instant dad to her 12-year-old daughter. I thank God every day for making them a part of my life. Thanks Lutherans Online for making us a family.

Tim
April, 2004

 
 
I had been visiting this site for about four years or so, and hadn't had any success meeting anyone until about a year ago. It seemed, that there were never any eligible single Lutheran men in my age group until March 2003! I read Ed's profile and started our e-mail communication. (I learned later, that he had tried to contact me 2-3 months earlier and didn't get a response; I had been in between computers and had changed my email address.) After writing back and forth for about a month, I invited him to church, and found out that the pastor at my church had been the pastor at his church for about 4 years. Now, what better reference is that? Our relationship continued to blossom and grow. I thank God everyday for bringing such a wonderful man into my life for we are going to marry on July 24, 2004. Thanks Lutherans Online and God Bless.

Rhonda
April, 2004

 
 
I was looking through Singles Seeking last July and found this wonderful DCE in Texas named Heather. On our first phone call, we talked for 4 hours! Things grew between us from a distance, she came to visit me in November, and we were engaged in January! We are getting married July 10th, 2004! Thank you so much for providing this opportunity for me to meet the woman I have been praying for my entire life!

Craig
March, 2004

 
 
I posted a message on the Singles Seeking board back in September of 2001. Less than a month later, I got a response from the man who is now my fiance! We wrote back and forth across the 2000+ mile divide while each doing churchwork internships and met after 3 months - then again 5 months later. This August I moved to be closer to him while he finished school, and we are getting married in May! I am so thankful for this service and how God used it to place such a wonderful, loving, Christian servant in my life... as my partner and my best friend.

Genevieve
January, 2003

 
 
I'm not looking any more. I found the perfect lady right here in Lutherans Online. It's going wonderfully, and, in about two years, don't be too surprised to hear the sound of wedding bells.

GKWarren
2002

 

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